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Fast forward. Almost 10 years later.

Its been a few years...

I've had some crazy ass adventures. Lots of ups and downs. Gravity hit hard on those down times haha.
BUT. 09/15/2013. That is my sober birthday. In the last 5.5 years I have promoted 3 times at a local government agency in Eugene. I have gotten engaged, had a baby boy. He is incredible. Got out of some insane debt---I have been "adulting" successfully!
I will be starting a graduate program in the Fall and will still be working full time--with a 3 year old.
So that I don't go insane--I will be practicing "self-care" activities and venting a lot on this blog. I will try to keep everything as discreet as possible. This is the internet tho.

So self-care practice and venting will commence NOW. If anyone has some interesting ideas, please feel free to share with me.

Today: Mommy and Kid day. Taking in the fast times as much as possible. Breathe innnn...



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